by Jen Forristal | May 31, 2018 | Realistic Optimism, Umbrella Intro
With the approach of summer, The Holistic Parent magazine has released its Summer 2018 issue! Dr. Jen’s article on Positive Parenting is included on page 10.
You can pick up your free copy of this fantastic magazine at any one of their community partner locations. See the list of those locations here, or follow them on social media (@holisticparentmag).
by Jen Forristal | May 28, 2018 | Realistic Optimism
The umbrella skills help us get through life’s rainy days and frame the opportunities which come our way. Over the course of May, we have worked together to identify how to build your child’s realistic optimism skill.
Answer these three quick questions for yourself and then repeat the exercise with your child. Total up the score to take a snapshot of where your child’s realistic optimism is right now.
1. I think that most things I do will turn out OK. Score: 0, 1, 2, 3
2. My past experiences have prepared me well for the future. Score: 0, 1, 2, 3
3. Even when others get discouraged, I know I can find a way to solve the problem. Score: 0, 1, 2, 3
Scoring system:
0 – Very seldom or not true of me
1 – Seldom true of me
2 – Often true of me
3 – Almost always true of me
Results:
0-3 Your realistic optimism skill has started to develop. Actively look for ways to practice this important skill. Here are two places to get started: Have a Plan A, B, & C [Video Tip], Identify Strong Coping Skills [Video Tip]
4-6 Keep working at it. Your realistic optimism skill is growing. Here are a few places to gather more information about building realistic optimism: Create a Negative Sandwich [Video Tip], Schedule in Worry Time [Video Tip]
7-9 Your realistic optimism skill is well developed. Keep it up!
by Jen Forristal | May 25, 2018 | Realistic Optimism
Today, Dr. Jen speaks about learned helplessness and how this impacts our wellbeing.
To overcome this state and build your child’s realistic optimism, ask them what they would tell a friend to do in the same situation. Watch the full tip below or on our Facebook page!
by Jen Forristal | May 23, 2018 | Realistic Optimism
When giving critical feedback to your child, focusing on solvable problems will highlight the temporary nature of the issue at hand.
Watch today’s tip with Dr. Jen below or on our Facebook page to learn how this approach will help build your child’s realistic optimism!
by Jen Forristal | May 18, 2018 | Realistic Optimism
This is a tip for the worriers in your family – the kids who really struggle to put down the weight of the world.
For these kids, try scheduling worry breaks into their day. This gives them the time and space they need to think about troubling subjects. Learn more by watching the video below or on our Facebook page! You will find this helpful for building realistic optimism for your child.
by Jen Forristal | May 17, 2018 | Realistic Optimism
Today’s tip goes back to the main umbrella metaphor and the temporary nature of rain.
Kids and adults alike can benefit from recognizing that it’s not always stormy in our lives. Listen in to hear what Dr. Jen has to say about timelines and building your realistic optimism! Watch the video below or on our Facebook page.